i have edited your post to remove your email address, not a good idea to go posting that about on random forums...
but as for your post contents, 2 things:
1. never ever pay for winmx, winmx is free, if you have paid anyone then block the payment if it's not too late and if it is then start procedings to get it back, you were conned
2. the issue of connecting as primary is normally due to ports not being open, what exactly is the message you get when you try?