I have noticed a change seens i got myself a new connection with a router modem (did not have router before) 
and thath change is clearly..thath my own upload queve have started to be wery wery short, i share 1700 video files, and i noticed thath thoose files used to generate atleast 100 users in Queve with my old connection, 
now 3 month later with a new ISP, with the exact same files shared as before, i dont even get over 10 in Q 
and you check the people thath share the same genre and..often same files..thei have over 100 Q 
what i see is thath people get into my queve..BUT thei seem to fall out of it again after some minutes only, i dont have thath problem myself with others..so its strange, 
i dont gain anything of this, just loose trade opportunities  
 i have portforwarded the router succesfully, so i can download, i can get into chat rooms, and i can upload...but i have gotten alone and isolated cause of this queve change 
right now i have been online 11 hours with 1700 files..and i have 4 in queve. 
i believe this must be a router issue?? 
if i started to use my old DSL modem again, im pretty sure thath the queve will be back in old values..but i loose in other ways if i change back, 
Im a primary connection bye the way, 28 Mbit ADSL throu telephone line 
i have Mx monitor "ON" but i have checked and there are no settings thath would cause this, i have not even changed any settings seens i used Winmx with my old connection 
any ideas what is causing this?
My router
http://www.portforward.com/english/routers/port_forwarding/Thomson-Alcatel/Speedtouch780v6/WinMX.htm