yeah I have forwarded 2 seperate posts as listed in the help files, 6699 TCP and 6257 UDP. I have gone through the setup wizard, and it tests successfully.
No, don't use Norton, I have McAfee 4.5.1sp1, and it shouldnt be touching any Internet traffic.
And my ISP is Optimum Offline.
as a quick FYI, I am a technical professional. I support 2k/2k3 servers and applications for a living. I have suspected that my ISP made changes. I had no trouble till about a month or 2 ago.
Thanks for all your (and the documented online) help.