Al the there is not 'Server' as I told you in the room, The fact that you have changed patches several times in the last days could also have caused problems. I did ask you to test the connection with the Nod32 off to see if it would connect and you werent willing to do this, To be honest the situation is strange I agree however, It was not working properly before you made the install of the 3.1 patch and before you changed from pie patch. This problem your having has nothing to do with the patch your using.
It may have everything to do with the fact your using two routers, and it could also be that your Nod32 firewall has flagged the patch changes up as a hijacking.
If you so inclined to try it, go back to the pie patch on the lap top and see if this lets it connect. I am telling you that if it does connect, and you use a primary connection with the lappy and Pie patch together your helping the RIAA to shut us all down and damaging the network, as long as you run secondary only and it works thats fine as i have already told you this also in the room.