Windows Firewall wasn't even on, and yes XP SP2 Firewall tut is almost exactly like Vista, just that the icon is a globe with a brick wall in front (some people need that kind of "hand holding" lol). Anyway, I shut down Nortons, etc etc, and even fired up the firewall and allowed WMX, just to see if it would work, so far still a blinking yellow light after 30 minutes. I set things back the way they were, except firewall is active with WMX allowed. In settings the IC is set to DSL, Out TCP is set at don't use proxy, In TCP is set at listen 6699, UDP is set at send 6257, Host is at use operating. Connection tests fail.
Now what?