you arent going to get it to work as primary... (too much lag) so give up on that one...
try using high numbered ports... or ports normally used for other programs such as windows media player or skype.... 7000-7009 for windows media 53078 for skype use that one for udp then 53079 for tcp... make sure the router is forwarded correctly and no two apps are trying to use the same port... and use an outside port checker to check if they are open....
example:
http://www.utorrent.com/testport.php?port=(put the port number you want to test here)
(url may not work... my connection is bogged down and the page doesnt seem to want to load)
and when your contract with hughes is up get DSL.... (if highspeed isnt available get dialup... it'll be slower but it'll actually work... the lag caused by using satellite internet offsets any speed gains when doing basically anything but surfing the web...)