So I have been using the pie patch (.info) for the past few years and have had no problems. (I know it's not good and i have switched to the community now, and i can't believe how much faster it connects now)
But for the past day i have not been able to get connected, secondary or primary. I let it sit for 20+ minutes and just seeking.. or connecting...
i looked in my hostfile and tried using telnet <ip> <port> and it didn't work