Ahhh, Fish, I have seen you around, come take refuge in our chat room, find some sanity, and maybe even help to cope with your crummy connection
As for the no-sharing morons, we all suffer them, i think many think MX is like other p2p, just take, take, take, and no uploads, even manually started
I have noted lately many many who wont start you at all, even using Moni, they dont set autostarts