Girlbear,
Hi welcome. I am not sure what site your talking about, but I can assure you its not this one. If you look around there are no adds. No places for clicking on paypal for money and we have infact turned down donations, and i garauntee there is nothing inside the patch or installer that would make your nortons start acting up.
I can tell you however that your not the only person to be experiencing problems with their Norton or Sygate, I have reports of two ppl that have had something send these two programs into all sorts of misery.
My best advise is to reinstall your programs and let me know if this helped you any.