I can think of a few reasons this might happen.
One being this user is on primary but has not got ports set up correctly. Downloads would work like this however, how he would have found your files since searches wont work this way..
its possible this user had a partial file from you, got a new ISP or router and hasnt configured it.. WinMX will do a hash search for partial files and it would allow him to find you repeaditly even tho his other functions arent working..
I would say this person needs some help getting MX working correctly.. too bad you cant message them and send them here..