Hello, I hope someone can help me. Just yesterday I went through your wonderful helpful tutorial in how to port forward my router & was successful. I had been tired of seeing people time out. While I was on for a brief while tonight & the few uploads I got, nobody timed out, then came a friend of mine who also went through the steps of port forwarding to allow WinMx in. Before we had port forwarded, when we had tried on here before it had said ' connection refused' & after port forwarding, we got ' waiting for incoming connection' and then an eventual time out every time we tried. We both went from using a secondary connection to using a primary connection. What do I try now?