Dern.. see I wasnt trying to question your ability at all, but in trying to clarify that .. it sounded more like i was.. sorry.. lol
Yes that set up looks perfect. .. which is sorta grrr ..
What about your xp firewall is it off still?
Also are we talking about ALL uploads or just most?
Make sure your file transfer settings in WinMX are as follows:
60, 600, and 300 on the rest.. you can check ones of your choice but for ease of making sure they are set correct i listed them all.
Other then making sure your ports are open, and it sounds like they are, and that your firewalls and antivirus arent blocking, I am about at a lose for reasons behind this.
I would suggest maybe considering making a secondary connection
Have to say this tho, a secondary connection that works is better any day then a primary that doesnt for you..